(Caution: This may be too emotional for it was written in tears)
In a tragic twist of fate, we are confronted with two stories of sorrow and loss in the last 24 hours. A 33-year-old Olympian and a dedicated 300-level medical student find their lives abruptly cut short.
The Ugandan Olympian marathon runner Rebecca Cheptegei, died following a horrific incident where she was set on fire by her boyfriend, Dickson Ndiema Marangach. originally from Uganda but living in Kenya. She faced a heartbreaking end at the hands of an insecure partner. This grim reality sheds light on the dangers of domestic violence and the devastating impact it can have, extinguishing a bright life full of potential. My sad daily reality as a forensic psychiatrist.
In a parallel narrative, the medical student, Williams from Unilag College of medicine, born in Nigeria, met his untimely end due to the neglect and selfishness of a government tasked with protecting its citizens. His aspirations and hopes were shattered by a system that failed to provide the support and care he deserved. All dreams silenced. My reality as advocate for the voiceless in a society devoid of listening ears and compassionate leadership.
These tragic losses underscore the challenges faced by many individuals across Africa, from the shadows of abuse to the shadows of governmental shortcomings. We are drowning in the ocean of despair and desperation even when we know what is the right thing to do. Two African children lost prematurely. Helplessness and hopelessness wrapped into one.
As we reflect on these heartbreaking losses, we must use their stories as a call to action. Let us start conversations about domestic violence awareness, mental health, suicide prevention and holding governments accountable. In their memory, let us strive for a future where tragedies like these are prevented, where empowerment and protection are paramount, and where every life is valued and safeguarded. Now is time to speak out against domestic violence and suicide.
Let’s say no to suicide and homicide. Enough!